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She was a chain smoker who smoked about 3 packs a day.
As I was getting to know her and I started develop feelings for her I felt the need to mention to her how bad it was that she smoked that much.
Something really bad has to happen for her to even have a chance. As far as for me, I just can't deal with this anymore.
For some reason I can't stand to be around her anymore or even talk to her on the phone when I can hear her light up and smoke!
Now she wants to try to lose some of the weight she gained before she tries to quit again. Seeing her frantically needing a cigarette every ~30 minutes is amazing.
She tells me that she finally realizes that she needs to quit and she wants to do it, but that she needs to do it for herself and not for me or others. Do years or decades need to pass before she is finally ready? I do not think she will ever quit smoking any time soon...
She could not even sit through a 2 hour movie without her needing a "smoke break" And to hear her constant cough and hear her deep voice all reafirmed that this was taking a huge toll on her health.
I should of walked at that point, but I foolishly stayed. And as a fellow human being I wanted to help her save her life.
Every place we would go eat the first thing she would ask is if there was outside seating so she could smoke.
I just could not sit and watch her do this to herself.
She then finally decided to try to quit on Chantix and it lasted 2 months (boy were the side effects horrific!
(seeing a loved one die due to smoking, spittin up blood, etc) I know it was wrong but I did push.
I tried telling her what she was doing, bought books, printed out materials for her to read.