Dating too soon after a break up
Here’s what a reader says on my article about avoiding rebound love: “My boyfriend and I broke up three months ago.I’m 36 years old, and ready to get married and have a family.Instead, you’ll be OK taking your time to meet new people without the expectation of immediately getting into another relationship. Your heart was broken, you deserve some self-love and to indulge a little.Whether that involves treating yourself to a massage, that tattoo you’ve been saving for or just taking some time out to chill, you need to give this gift to yourself before you start dating again – if only to remind yourself that you’re 100% worth it.Part of moving on is being able to own up to your own personal BS and mistakes – even if that mistake was dating your ex in the first place. The healing process after a breakup isn’t complete until you’ve had a chance to air all of your grievances and vent until you’re blue in the face.
The only time you should be dating is when you’re already comfortable being single and hanging out solo..pass_color_to_child_links a.u-inline.u-margin-left--xs.u-margin-right--sm.u-padding-left--xs.u-padding-right--xs.u-absolute.u-absolute--center.u-width--100.u-flex-align-self--center.u-flex-justify--between.u-serif-font-main--regular.js-wf-loaded .u-serif-font-main--regular.amp-page .u-serif-font-main--regular.u-border-radius--ellipse.u-hover-bg--black-transparent.web_page .u-hover-bg--black-transparent:hover. Content Header .feed_item_answer_user.js-wf-loaded . You want to date for the “right reasons.” You’re not trying to make your ex jealous.You’re not trying to fill a void left behind by the breakup.